Samantha & Robert

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Samantha & Robert

September 18, 2026

Monserate Winery

Fallbrook, California

Our Story

the arranged marriage

Many people who know us have heard the story, how a little joke between our parents somehow turned into the love of a lifetime. It all started with playful theories and endless banter about the two of us dating. Our parents, in their infinite wisdom (and maybe a bit of matchmaking magic), joked for years about setting us up. But despite all the nudges and hints, life had other plans. We kept missing each other. It seemed like fate was taking its sweet time.

Then one day, Robbie decided to stop waiting and sent Sam an Instagram DM, just a little spark, but enough to light the flame. From the moment we had our first conversation, we clicked in a way that was undeniable. We became inseparable. We moved in together and built a life filled with love and laughter. We even got a dog, Sweetie, our precious little dude who adds so much love and chaos to our home.

A year later, Robbie was planning the most beautiful surprise proposal just in time for Christmas. But first, in the most Robbie way possible, he secretly asked Sam's dad for permission during a round of mini golf. Immediately after, Sam shot a hole-in-one and that’s when they both knew. It was like a sign, God was giving us a little nod of approval.

Robbie proposed on December 20, 2024, at Terranea. And the very next morning, bright and early at 5 AM, Sam was already planning our wedding. What started as a joke between our parents became a reality. Now here we are, promising to love each other forever. And that is the story of what we like to call, "Our Arranged Marriage."

We’re so excited to share this special moment with the people we love most. We can’t wait to celebrate with you!

the countdown to forever begins now

Wedding Itinerary

ceremony

at 3:30 in the afternoon

cocktails

at 4:30 in the afternoon

reception

at 6:00 in the evening

Accommodations

While we have not secured a hotel block for our guests, we’ve compiled a list of great hotel options for your convenience. We hope this helps with your travel plans and look forward to celebrating with you!

Pechanga Resort Casino

4-star hotel

13.8 miles

Temecula Creek Inn

4-star hotel

11.3 miles

Pala Casino Spa Resort

4-star hotel

10.5 miles

Pala Mesa Resort

3-star hotel

3.4 miles

Embassy Suites by Hilton

3-star hotel

14.2 miles

Travel

Uber Discount Code

We’ve partnered with Uber to offer a special discount on your ride to and from the venue! We encourage all guests who plan on enjoying a couple drinks to take advantage of the code provided. Let’s celebrate responsibly and make sure everyone gets home safely!

A discount code will be made available closer to the date of the wedding.

Dress Code

break out your best suits, gowns, and dancing shoes!

We kindly ask that guests wear formal attire to match the elegance of the occasion. Please see below for a brief description of the dress code along with a bit of inspiration to help guide your outfit choices.

Women's Dress Code

We request that you wear a floor-length dress or long gown.
We’d love to keep the vibe elevated, so we ask that cocktail dresses be saved for another night.
Please refrain from wearing white, champagne, or any light shades that could appear white in photos.

Men's Dress Code

We ask that you wear a suit or suit jacket to help keep the vibe formal and elegant.
No need for a tux—just something polished and sharp.
Think: jacket/blazer, dress shirt, slacks and nice shoes.

Frequently asked questions

What time should I arrive?

Please arrive at 3:00 pm and no later than 3:15 pm. The ceremony will begin promptly at 3:30 pm, so plan accordingly to allow time for parking and seating.

Will there be parking available at the venue?

Yes, there is parking available at the venue. As you enter the property, directional signs will guide you to the designated parking area, conveniently located next to the ceremony site.

Will the wedding take place indoors or outdoors?

The ceremony and cocktail hour will take place outdoors. The reception will be held in a space that flows between indoors and out. All wedding events will be held on the same property, only a short walk in between each.

Can I take pictures?

Our ceremony will be "unplugged", we invite you to be fully present with us in the moment. We request that you turn off all phones and cameras until after the ceremony.

Can I bring a date?

Due to limited space, we are only able to accommodate the guests listed on your invitation.

Are kids invited?

While we love your little ones, our wedding will be an adults-only celebration. We hope you enjoy a night off!

When is the RSVP Deadline?

Please RSVP by August 4, 2026, so we can finalize the details and celebrate with you! You’ll be able to RSVP once the tab becomes available as the wedding day approaches.

What happens if I don't RSVP on time?

If we don’t receive your RSVP by August 4, 2026, we will assume you won’t be attending, and we’ll miss you dearly!

What should I do if I cannot attend?

We understand if you can’t make it but please let us know by RSVPing ‘no’ to help us with final preparations.

Our Registry

We feel so lucky to have your love and support, your presence at our wedding truly is more than enough.
If you do wish to honor us with a gift, we’ve put together a honeymoon/house fund and a gift registry with few things we love.

More to Come...