September 9–13, 2026
Join us in Durango for a wedding weekend filled with intention, joy, and mountain beauty. Each day is thoughtfully planned to reflect love, connection, and celebration. We can’t wait to share it with you.
Meet us in the mountains
We’ll be gathering in the San Juan Mountains for a once-in-a-lifetime celebration at the stunning Black Diamond Lodge in Durango, CO.
Our best journey yet
From the ascent to the peak celebration, every day is designed with intention, joy, and awe. This isn’t just a wedding—it’s a multi-day experience filled with meaning, adventure, and time to connect with the people we love most.
Counting down to Colorado
Just a little longer until the mountains meet the magic.
The Mountain Journey
The Wedding Phases & Sacred Unfolding of the Weekend
Day One & Two
The Ascent
To our Friends
We’re kicking things off with a pre-wedding adventure! All friends—guys and girls—are invited to join us for a joint bachelor/bachelorette-style celebration. We’ll be flying out as a group for a few unforgettable days of bonding, laughter, and just the right amount of chaos. 🥂✈️ You’ll find all travel info, group plans, and daily details in the SquadTrip link below—pack your party shoes and get ready for the fun!
To our Family
We’d love for you to arrive on Wednesday and settle into the mountain magic early. Guests arriving that day will be able to select fun add-ons and will receive a custom Thursday Family Fun Day schedule based on everyone’s choices. If you’re arriving Thursday or later, you’re still welcome to select certain add-ons—though you'll miss out on the full Family Fun Day experience. The $200 lodging fee remains the same no matter your arrival date. ✨ All lodging info, activities, and the full weekend schedule are available through the SquadTrip link below!
Day Two
The Full Moon
Welcome Brunch
We’ll begin our late morning with a cozy welcome brunch designed to help everyone ease into the mountain rhythm. Expect fresh coffee, Colorado flavors, and warm hugs as we gather for the first time under one roof. Come hungry, comfy, and ready to connect.
Activities & Relaxation
Guests are free to unwind and socialize with a curated lineup of light activities at their leisure. Whether you want to soak in the views, sip something warm on the deck, or jump into optional adventures, there’s plenty of time to mingle and prepare for the evening’s reception. Options may include guided nature walks, local artisan tastings, or casual lawn games.
Full Moon & Reception Dinner
As the sun dips behind the peaks, we’ll officially open the celebration with an elegant evening of fine dining, laughter, and a few fun surprises. This night marks the Full Moon — a moment to reflect, rejoice, and raise a glass. ✨Dress Code: Formal Attire
(Please see our attire guide for outfit inspiration and details.)
Day Three
The Peak Celebration
Breakfast Gathering
A gourmet breakfast will be served to all guests, setting a warm and nourishing tone for the day ahead. Sip, savor, and enjoy the mountain morning together before the adventure begins.
Scenic Excursion Option 1
Glide along the serene waters or trails of Durango and take in the majestic mountain views.
Scenic Excursion Option 2
For those wanting a different pace, explore one of our handpicked scenic routes or relaxing outdoor spots—crafted with awe and ease in mind.
Sound Bath or Siesta
Unplug and reset. Choose between a calming sound bath experience or a peaceful siesta to recharge your spirit and body before the day’s deeper moments unfold.
Midday Harvest Lunch
Enjoy a light, elegant meal nestled in nature as we prepare for the sacred celebration ahead. This tranquil gathering offers space to connect, reflect, and fill your cup - literally and figuratively.
Spiritual Prayer Service
A meaningful and reflective service to honor the Lord, His love, the gift of family, and the sacred journey ahead. We’ll gather in reverence and gratitude, centering our hearts before the vows.
Rest & Rejuvenation
Take a quiet pause to refresh, unwind, and prepare for the evening. Whether with a moment of solitude or a scenic walk, let this time ground you before the celebration continues.
Two Become One
The heartfelt exchange of vows in an intimate, picturesque setting, surrounded by creation and community.
Dress Code: Formal Attire
Formal Dinner & Celebration
An evening under the stars filled with exquisite food, fine wines, laughter, and music. No formalities—just joy, dancing, and unforgettable memories with the people we love most.
Day Four
The Descent
Farewell Breakfast
A final, elegant breakfast to celebrate the weekend and bid farewell to our cherished guests. Join us for one last meal together—warm food, sweet moments, and hearts full of love.
Departure
We send our guests off with love and gratitude, carrying the joy and memories of an unforgettable weekend in the mountains. Safe travels until we meet again. 💛
TRAVEL DETAILS
We’re so excited to celebrate with you in the mountains! Here’s everything you need to know about getting to Durango and staying with us at the Black Diamond Lodge.
LODGING
THE BLACK DIAMOND LODGE
We’ve reserved the entire Black Diamond Lodge exclusively for our guests. Every guest will be assigned a cozy room based on family or group dynamics. Your stay includes all meals and full access to lodge amenities—including the game room, hot tub, library, and more. Lodging is covered with a flat $200 fee per guest for the entire weekend.
FLIGHT PASS
AIRPORT (DRO)
For convenience, we’re offering a $450 flight add-on for guests who would like us to handle travel booking. Friends will fly together as a group on Wednesday, September 9th from a selected departure city. Family flights will be arranged individually based on your preferred airport and arrival date. Flights will be purchased in June 2026, and once selected, you’re fully covered—no planning needed on your end.
BOOKING
SQUADTRIP REQUIRED
To keep things simple and stress-free, all lodging and flight payments will be made through SquadTrip only. You’ll be able to select your package and choose a payment plan that works for your budget. Once you’ve signed up, we’ll take care of the rest—no outside booking, no hidden fees, just clear and easy planning from day one.
SOWING INTO GOOD SOIL
Your presence is the greatest gift we could ask for.
We're deeply grateful to God for His provision. We know that attending a destination wedding is a sacrifice, and we want to honor that fully. Please feel no pressure to bring a traditional gift.
If you feel led, we invite you instead to support causes closest to our hearts. In place of gifts, we encourage donations to a few of our favorite organizations that reflect our values - furthering education, uplifting marginalized communities, and extending the love of Christ through justice and care.
🩺 HUMAN HEALTH & AUTONOMY
Romans 14:12–13
“So then, each of us will give an account of ourselves to God. Therefore let us stop passing judgment on one another.”
Charity Navigator Rating: ★★★★ (4/4)
Mission: Uses legal advocacy to defend reproductive freedom as a basic human right, ensuring access to safe, respectful healthcare around the world.
Why We Chose This: Their work protects women's dignity and agency, especially for those in underserved and marginalized communities.
✊🏾RACIAL JUSTICE & MINORITY RIGHTS
Amos 5:24
“But let justice roll on like a river, righteousness like a never-failing stream!”
Charity Navigator Rating: ★★★★ (4/4)
Mission: Works to end racial injustice, mass incarceration, and poverty through legal representation, public education, and systemic reform.
Why We Chose This: Founded by Bryan Stevenson, EJI leads with compassion, courage, and equity in defending vulnerable communities nationwide.
🏳️🌈 LGBTQ+ SAFETY & BELONGING
Isaiah 56:3,5
“Let no foreigner… or eunuch say, ‘The Lord will surely exclude me’… I will give them an everlasting name that will endure forever.”
Charity Navigator Rating: ★★★★ (4/4)
Mission: The nation’s leading nonprofit providing crisis intervention and suicide prevention services to LGBTQ+ youth under age 25.
Why We Chose This: Their critical work ensures that young people feel safe, seen, and supported—especially in moments of deep need.
Required Formal Attire
For the formal events on Friday evening and Saturday, please wear tones in a harmonious palette: dusty blue, sage green, ivory, champagne, soft beige, or muted neutrals that complement the surrounding landscape and natural light.
Packing List coming soon.
COLOR PALETTE
For the Friday and Saturday events, we recommend flowy gowns, tailored suits, elegant jumpsuits, or structured sets. Please avoid patterns. Accessorize with gold jewelry or accents to enhance the formal yet warm atmosphere.
STYLE DIRECTION
To complete your formal look for both evenings, choose light blazers, dressy footwear (loafers, closed-toe heels, or boots), and well-fitted silhouettes that blend polish and comfort. Personal style is welcome within these guidelines.
FINISHING TOUCHES
To complete your look for the Friday reception and Saturday ceremony and dinner, we recommend light blazers, dressy footwear (loafers, boots, or closed-toe heels), and well-fitted silhouettes that balance style and ease. Feel free to bring your own expression while keeping with the formal tone.
WHAT YOU MIGHT BE WONDERING
SAVE THE DATES
WHAT ARE THE OFFICIAL WEDDING WEEKEND DATES?
September 9–13, 2026 (Wednesday through Sunday). You’re welcome to join us for the full duration or arrive Thursday if needed.
LOCATION
WHERE IS THE WEDDING TAKING PLACE?
At the beautiful Black Diamond Lodge in Durango, Colorado. The entire lodge is reserved exclusively for our guests.
COST
HOW MUCH DOES THE WEDDING WEEKEND COST?
We’re asking each guest to contribute $200 for lodging, which includes your stay, meals, and all planned events. If you’d like us to handle your flight too, you can choose the $650 package (lodging + roundtrip flight).
PAYMENT
HOW DO I PAY?
All payments will be collected only through SquadTrip. You can pay in full or set up a payment plan—easy and stress-free!
LOCAL AIRPORT
DURANGO AIRPORT
Durango–La Plata County Airport (DRO) is the closest. If you choose the flight add-on, we’ll book this for you and arrange group transportation.
FLEXIBLE TRAVEL DATES
CAN I COME IF I’M ONLY AVAILABLE THURSDAY–SUNDAY?
Yes! The full weekend is encouraged, but guests are welcome to arrive Thursday if needed. Just note your arrival date in registration.
WHAT TO WEAR
WEEKEND ATTIRE GUIDE
We'll send a full packing list soon, but plan for casual mountain wear, formal attire for Saturday, a swimsuit (yes, there's a hot tub!), and layers for cool nights.
WEEKEND ADD-ON'S
Are there any extra activities I can sign up for?
Yes! Optional add-ons like yoga, wine tasting, mani/pedis, and a train ride to Silverton are available during registration. Space is limited for some experiences, so we recommend booking early.
CANCELATION POLICY?
What happens if I need to cancel after I’ve paid?
We hope everyone can join, but we understand life happens. Because we’ve booked and paid for the venue in advance, we may not be able to offer full refunds. Please reach out to us directly if your plans change—we’ll do our best to work with you.
LODGE ROOMS
ROOM SELECTION
We’ve pre-selected rooms for each guest based on family groupings and guest dynamics to make the weekend comfortable and seamless for everyone. After your payment is submitted through SquadTrip, we’ll send details about your assigned room. That said, if you’d like to request something specific or have questions ahead of time, feel free to reach out—we’re happy to accommodate when we can.
SNEAK PEAK
CAN I SEE THE LODGE BEFORE THE TRIP?
Absolutely! You can view photos of the Black Diamond Lodge and take a full 3D tour at the links below. This will give you a feel for the space, amenities, and the beautiful views you’ll enjoy throughout the weekend.
